Reinvention After Destruction

"You can never wreck me because I can always reinvent myself"

That's my perception about myself when I'm broken. Instead of wrecking myself to prosecute their conscience, I'd rather give a sweet revenge and make them realized what they have lost, and that I can be better off without them.

Former Disney star, Miley Cyrus and Hunger Games actor, Liam Hemsworth called off their engagement, ending a four-year relationship. Cyrus notably said that she could finally be the bad bitch she really was, now that she and Liam are no longer together. The 20 year-old singer and actress reinforced herself with platinum hair, tattoos and minimal clothes, a far cry from her days as a teenage star in Hannah Montana in Walt Disney, and now, appeared undressed, wild, and aggressive while riding on a wrecking ball on her music video "Wrecking Ball". She's too evocative with her lyrics and behavior which was unexpected and that nobody was ready to see her that way.

Analyzing the simplicity of the music video and its very own lyrics, it's pretty obvious that Cyrus was totally dismayed on her relationship with Liam. The usage of wrecking ball represents Liam's love which can wreck someone's femininity and that's the thing she had experienced. If she has ever appeared far from her wholesome image, that's to show that she's in servitude of Liam back then and is now a rebel chic and a fighter who's trying to get her life back in a process of change. Her aggressive behavior in the MV only shows that she's over with the grief and that being wild is her basic way to cope with the break up. Her performance was disturbing and alarming, considering that she has youth fans and that it might affect the fan base, but she still pursued with the thing she believes was ethereal to survive the heartache. Her tattoos represent her feelings which she believes will suffice for the words she couldn't utter or express in a verbal manner.

You can never tell the person's own assessment regarding changes, whether for his or her betterment or for worse. We have different perceptions on how we want to lead our lives and what pathway is better to take, whether it looks flagrant in our humanity or not.

I've never been a fan of Miley. I never liked her, and I actually hate her because I don't find her beautiful, seriously. But now, I can say that she's pretty much endearing now for being tough and true to herself. Some were disappointed and some were still supportive about the sudden alteration of things about her, from image down to her ego. I see Miley's passion and her eagerness to survive the depression and that makes her awesome.

I'm posting this entry to cite my interpretation about break ups.

Everyone can reinvent themselves 'cause that's innate. Inadvertently, you'd realize that once you aim to get out of that box and start anew. I have experienced a lot of rejections in life which are alike anyhow with the break-up. Both undergo in a series of pain and heartache but with different extremities. In Cyrus' case, she has come across her limitations and undressed herself with an impulsive character. Her particular way to show Liam how outmoded she'd become after their break up is by being uninhibited, which I perfectly respect if she feels secure in that realm. Furthermore, I understand the word "sweet revenge". Meaning, showing others that you can be better off without them, and giving them the extreme regret of leaving you, by being happy, successful and good-looking.

 (Let's all accept and admit that people do look on our outer or physical aspect, that it has an amount of fascination, and the personality comes next and so on. That's why desiring to look good and physically fit is a must once you're broken.)

Changing oneself doesn't mean being someone you are not supposed to be, or you're not meant to be, but changing oneself is about realization and is a continuous struggle to improve yourself inevitably.

If Miley's art to get rid of the pains is her new character, whether depiction or real, I salute that! Crave to live well!

Now Playing : Wrecking Ball - Miley Cyrus

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: Migs Lorenzana