What Makes You A "Torpe"?

This is quite hard to talk about because people are made and designed to be different from each other and so as the perception and even the mindset. We can't actually tell what are the dislikes and likes of a person, where he excels most and where is he afraid of. 

"You're not a real man if you cannot approach a woman." My friends used to tell that and I don't know if I'd agree or disagree 'cause obviously, manhood isn't all about how valiant you are, sometimes it's all about careful considerations and decisions. Well, not all people hold a courage to take a move. During such situations, your idea generates and you analyze all that comes from box. In fact, there are things that a person should consider first before he jump into such thoughtful action. Inhibiting oneself from doing the things that need a further pursuance is a part of the regulatory emotional strategy of a person. They are already aware of the consequences that awaits them, and trying to save himself from disappointment and pain is just a phase.

We are all familiar with the word "torpe". Torpe refers to a person who is afraid to admit his feelings to someone he really admire or love. They are actually scripted by their own ideological sense and culture at large and I'd like to elaborate and specify the possible reasons that trigger them to refrain from courting in accordance of my own observations.

1. Fear of Rejection.

     Everyone is afraid of rejection. When you're rejected, you feel like you're insensible, derp and the ugliest person to ever set foot on earth. But you can never tell unless you try. There is nothing scarier than to waste your once in a lifetime opportunity.

2. Her Friends' Seduction.

        Sometimes it's really annoying how her friends manipulate the mind and decision of your ideal girl. No matter how much we want to prove ourselves, once her friends hate you, they can always find ways to discredit you by giving false advice and information.

3. Financial Status

        Struggling for financial support is quite difficult especially for a guy. It's always a must that guys spend more than girls could do. There are times that you couldn't help but think what to give during the courting progress and if ever, during monthsaries, anniversaries, and Valentine's when the time comes.

4. The Girl Is Rich.

         Being in a "class C" society when the girl is belong to the "class A" is really scary for a guy. Let's all accept that out of 10 women, only 8% won't care whether the guy is a pauper or sumptuous, unluckily, your ideal girl is into 2% who cares about the manner of living. Relationship doesn't happen because they love each other, sometimes it exists because of wealth.

5. She's Beautiful and Ms. Popular.

       Another factor is the popularity standing of the girl. If the guy thinks that the girl has got everything, he'll surely discourage himself because he knows his own standpoint. The physical attribute and the favorable society greatly affect the decision of a guy whether to court or not.

6. Your Competitor Is  Drawn From Aphrodite's womb.

       Idiomatically speaking, your competing with a handsome or drop-dead gorgeous guy. Of course, who wouldn't get envied and threatened when you know that there is someone who's more attractive, hunkier and well-groomed? Whose personality is more pleasing and likable for a girl? 

7. Time and Place.

        You're actually waiting for the perfect time to arrive for your moment to happen without knowing when, where and how. It's like your living with the epigram "tomorrow is another day". Tomorrow doesn't end.

8. Low Self-Esteem.

         He considers his physical appearance, tangible stuff, and any defaming and insulting points he has that discourage him. If the guy isn't confident about himself, he'll surely lose the chance to win the girl. There are times that the guy wins a girl even though he isn't attractive. It has been derived from his effort and self-confidence.

9. Her Standards/ Qualifications

        The guy is fairly alarmed with the girl's qualifications. If he knows that he's out of her personal choice, he would then drop his sword because the standards already told him he's out. But you can always break her list. It's always the effort that counts.

10. Parents' Instructions/ Mother's Golden Rule.

         This is worse than her friends' manipulation. This is almost the same with the girl being rich. 

11. Advance Thinker/ Future Reliant/ Pessimistic.

       A part of pessimism in a guy that can never be beaten. When he thinks that their relationship won't work in the near future, or someone's gonna fall out, then he's probably depriving himself to try his luck. An encapsulation from over-thinking is heading its way.

12. Crush Crashes.

        Sometimes, a guy isn't sure about his feelings. He's confused about the extremity of his affection towards the girl. If he's just infatuated or inlove. 

13. Ex's Power.

         He's being discouraged when he saw that the girl is still in love with her ex, that her ex still holds a power to get her back. He is more likely to feel dismay with the situation and vulnerable because the edge isn't at him. 

14. Responsibility/ Not yet ready.

          He considers his maturity when it comes to handling a serious and long-term relationship. He also considers his own capabilities to make it work and how hard the responsibility would be. This case occurs during teenage years, especially when the guy is studious and a family-pet.

15. Prioritizing Friendship rather than Relationship

          This happens when the guy is friends with the girl. What matters most is the friendship and that he doesn't want to put an end onto it. He believes that it's better to be friends 'cause it lasts for a longer period of time, in comparison with the commitment which can be the luck there off.

16. Past Hauls Off

          The guy is enclosed with his own past. If he had felt betrayed and unlucky from his past relationship, he'll get afraid to feel the same pain again, so the tendency is he'll inhibit himself to court again no matter how he loves the girl. It will be hard for him to see girls possessing different character. One thing he knows is all girls are same and he generalizes it.

But if you really love the person, you should take all the risks and hindrances that may get in your way. It's like a gamble that requires effort.

Now Playing: Wish I may - Breaking Benjamin

: Migs Lorenzana

Conventional February 14

There is nothing much to say about yesterday's Feast of Saint Valentine (Valentine's day). It was actually conventional but intoxicating. Apparently, V day is not only for couples, but a day to celebrate with family and friends. And so we've been into boys' day out. Jheremy, Patrick, Lester and I considered ours a Valentine's Day but more likely a chilling time in Bonifacio Global City. I was actually shock to see that the place is getting popular to "Jejemons", particularly the High Street. Quite disappointing. The place is losing its sophistication, honestly speaking. 

Don't make fuss about the V day, and if you're single, don't feel dismay. Life goes on, symmetrically, people do come and go too, aforementioned, there's always a precised time for everything.

Now Playing: Burn - Ellie Goulding

: Hearts all over the world

: Migs Lorenzana

On Society: Cheatville

I'm giving this entry a shot as we bid goodbye to year 2014. Let's all leave the drama that we have, most especially all the ignorance and stupidity in us together with the passing year. If you're vacuous in love or in your relationship, better start your 2015 with awareness and have an eye to the society of cheatville. Be perceptive about infidelity.

Why do people cheat?

• Passion has faded
• Partners feel lonely
• People find someone who treats them better more than their current partner
• Discontentment
• Temptations are at risk and they can't resist it
• They just want to end the relationship
• Social influence (oftentimes shown by parents)
• People cheat because they pay attention to what is missing rather than what they have

Infidelity has an adverse effects such as depression, divorce for married couple and worst, suicide and homicide

Since infidelity is a very sensitive discussion, it connotes certain related explanations. Individualism may come. Referring to genders, men are likely to commit infidelity at large than women, because men have higher testosterone which is responsible for the strong desire to have sexual intercourse which is the main course of cheating. 

Personality can be an answer too. People who are less attentive with less resistance can be a cheater too because it's their own cultured disposition. 

Lastly, having a lot of dissimilar context from the partner is more expose to infidelity, especially when the other one is competitive in terms of attainment, educational background and other factors, in short, infidelity roots from intimidation and insecurity.

Why is it hard for a human to become faithful and loyal?

Personally, I think humans are really vulnerable when it comes to cognitive process to take good care and save their relationship when on rocks. It's not really hard when your psyche is firm in terms of committing in a relationship.

In some situational cases, people who are spending time with attractive people and exposed in wider metropolitan which liberalism is a mainstream, makes the scene tempting for them to engage in deception.

If the person lied, would it make him a cheater?

 Lies pertain to cheating and cheating is betrayal. When the person is betrayed by his partner through lies, he becomes a victim of infidelity as for some people who have considered lying as a form of cheating. 

Seemingly true, cheating and lying are close to the same thing, but if you would analyze their own extremities, they have difference. 

To make myself precise and definite, I'd like to quote this: 

"You can lie without cheating, but you can't certainly cheat without lying"

(I once lied but I didn't cheat. How was that? There were certain things that I had to deny and keep just to avoid verbal fights. Cheating includes having an affair, having sex with anybody, dating other persons when you're committed, and I've committed none any of those relationship crimes. I know you'll defend the epigram about being honest even if it'd hurt them, but for some it's better to know nothing about the truth 'cause what he doesn't know won't hurt him and so as I intended, nakakagago pero totoo. I lied sa pinakamaliit na rason pero nafeel niya na nabetrayed siya. Once a lie will always be a lie, whether small or big, reasonable or of little depth, sabi niya. 

Kapag ba nagsinungaling ka, kaya mo ng mangaliwa? Hindi naman lahat ng kasinungalingan patungkol sa pambabae o panlalake. Nabasag mo yung paborito niyang cup pero magsisinungaling ka kasi natatakot kang magalit siya. Infidelity ba yun? 

Lies actually damage the relationship because trust is the main foundation of the growing relationship, but cheating is the plague that injects deep emotional pain.

How to heal from cheating?

•  Since you’re both working on change, be patient. You need time to heal from the betrayal and your partner needs time to heal from the guilt. There's always a time for everything.

• Be upfront and honest with about what hurts you, what scares you and what makes you angry. Try not to rehash old stuff repeatedly. 

• You have to let the pain in and when it hurts you, let the pain go away and from there, you'd know how to deal with it and start anew.

How to avoid cheating/being cheated?

• Appreciate your partner. Love them unconditional with the best you could give.

•  Talk about both perceptions and thoughts about infidelity because everyone defines certain things with different interpretations.

• Trust your hunches.  They're usually based on facts filed away just below conscious level according to research.

Piece of advice

• If you've been cheated, live your life well and live happy. There is nothing more vengeful but to look good and be joyful. 
• If you're going to cheat, think twice, karma will find its own way to hurt you back.
• If your partner is accusing you of cheating, he or she's actually the one who is deceitful.
• Tell truthful things even if it makes them angry
• If they are acting extra nice for no reason, they are probably cheating on you
• Cheaters are weak-minded, and insecure.

Don't enclose yourself on "once a cheater, always a cheater” because if the person is involved in a well-matched partnership, it diminishes or eliminates their desire to cheat, making them dedicated and stick-to-one, so that epigram does not have to girdle on you.

As the year strips, I'm hoping for better persons in their relationship, better in terms of being a keeper and not a destroyer, wiser and not dope.

Have a fruitful year everyone!

Now Playing: Bloodstream - Ed Sheeran
: 2 days left before 2015

: Migs Lorenzana

Invading Male Modeling Scene

THE PREPARATION:        

  The first step to any modeling career is to have "The Goods" for the part:

Chris Evans

                 a.) "Gwapo Face"

Marc Nelson

b.) "Macho" Body

Hugh Jackman

c.) "I'm Freaking Hot"

Aura

BUT!

"YOU CAN ALWAYS BREAK THE RULES, AND YOUR PACKAGE DEPENDS ON THE TYPE OF MODELING "

KEEP IN MIND:         

When you're facing the camera, learn to put romance on projecting. 

- If you're "panget" (ugly) you do jump shots, aside from it's cool effect, that'll hide your "pagkapanget" face as some photographers do advice this.

Getting amazed with your fellow male models is normal so don't be scared. 

(note: That doesn't mean you're gay if you do. No one's perfect and we have our own envies and insecurities.)

"Pare baka isipin mo na bakla ako pero sa'tin-sa'tin lang, ang gwapo niya no? Sana ganyan din ako kagwapo para total package talaga"

If you don't have character, Add an impact, on the spot right away! Fix your posture, straighten your back, broaden your shoulders, then express through your face. Show your "fierce" look.

Photo Credit: Pinterest

Try to touch your tongue to your throat, that will help define your jaw.

CRITICAL PHASE:  Shooting Skin Shots

Usually, for the models who are going to walk on runway like for underwear show, they have to prepare for months that will show their concrete and well-formed bodies by going to the gym. They tend to workout their body everyday.

Photo Credit: Cosmopolitan

"DON'T FORGET!! BE SEDUCTIVE ON CAMERAS"

 Male models have their own different skin regimen. They have their "secrets" on maintaining their youthful glow.

Some male models are prudent on showing their vanity, some were in the "I don't care" statement because they believe it's for gays only. 

"As long as there's an alternative way to enhance their looks they would not stop developing and showing what they've got just to prove that they are flawless and clean with a good hygiene. Actually there's nothing wrong about it, THEY ARE MODELS AND SKIN IS THEIR MARKET!"

Modeling is basically body projection and presenting whatever you're supposed to present. All runway Models are performers.

Photo Credit: Gallery Hip

Photo Credit: Essential Homme

Everything that models do on the runway - the poses, walking style, facial expression - relays certain messages to the audience, so it's good to get in touch with your body muscles before you sashay through the runway.

 Close your eyes then open them slowly while counting to 10. Now, close your mouth then open it slowly.

 Loosen up your body with a series of shoulders, legs, and back exercises.

 Facial expression must always blend with the clothes.

In the runway, you should be walking in a straight line with your toes and heels in, while maintaining good body posture - stand straight with your chest and butt sticking out.

At some point, it's not necessary if you're Handsome or Macho, not all the time, there are also Character Models. But sadly, there are standards in modeling, especially in ramp. Men should be at least 6-feet tall with a lean body, but you can always break the rules.

Internalize before you get on stage. Release all the tensions and stress in your body so you can focus well. For example, before a show, study what kind of clothes you'll be wearing. RTW's is different from bringing suits.

TIPS: 

Get 8 hours of sleep. The skin pores tend to open more if you don't rest well.

In modeling, your investment is our face, so you have to take good care of it.

Wear black in a fashion go-see. It's elegant and it adds the impact to your body, making you look like skinnier if you're quite plus size.

Try to come early, usually, if the slots for models who we're really needed except if there's an exceptional has been completed, the next thing you can hear is "OKAY NEXT!"

Some events who need models for their shows or gigs really chooses models, BUT! If you have confidence to go to go-sees, it's okay. Some really encourages real men to try out, 'cause obviously, 

SOME PEDESTRIANS ARE EVEN MORE HANDSOME THAN MALE MODELS.

To feel good and confident, don't go for the extravagant pose.

       If you're thinking twice about your modeling dream, pursue it and go! Just believe in yourself and have a confidence. It requires a lot of sacrifices like being well-disciplined when it comes to the food you're eating or the diet itself and exercises . You have to shed tears and sweats to achieve your dream body, but after those hard works and sacrifices, you'll see that it is worth it. Everything is meant to be fair to miss a perfect character in and a package on you, so if you're tall, handsome, lean, macho, or to cut it short, "model type", don't waste the opportunity to share your package, instead flaunt it the way it is supposed to be sashayed.

Now Playing: Chandelier - Sia

Social Climber's Village

      It's been a long time since I last updated this blog, and now I'm tryin' to continue this orthodox sense towards things that may come in and out.

      This post is hauled from my own experiences, and lately, I encountered another pissing scenario in Starbucks which branch is located somewhere in Malolos City, Bulacan. I almost thought that it is the worst branch to ever visit since they've got the most ill-mannered customers. I was having a conversation with my friend in Starbucks and since she's a very close friend of mine since I was teenage, we don't really care at all about the phraseology we are using and we believe that there's no obstruction or restriction of English in Starbucks 'cause obviously the place is designed to be "classy" in the Philippines, and people often go there to spare time relaxing and de-stressing, more likely for office workers, students and other individuals who want to chitchat and talk about their business and other stuff, so we don't need to get surprised if we hear people speaking in English.

      In the middle of our conversation, we heard this girl murmured "nasa Pilipinas naman kasi eh." My forehead furrowed when I heard that 'cause I knew that she was referring about our diction as if like hinting us indirectly to speak Tagalog instead and that was very rude to intrude, especially meddling to something that's none of your business so I insinuated "kung di nakakaintindi ng English, wag na lang makinig, nakikikinig na nga lang nagrereklamo pa." Then my friend restrained me from firing back again 'cause she's pretty much aware that if the bombarding proceeds, there'll be an intense argument between the rude girl and our party. I didn't mind the next attack of the girl because I'd appear ungentle to provoke a woman and I know my circumstance that time, we just let her rant on her own facing her girl friend.

      After few minutes, we're done with our business in the coffee shop so we stood up and ready to leave. My friend came closer to the girl and she said "miss, kung English man kami magusap, wala ka na dun. Starbucks po 'to, so expect mo na makarinig ng mga nag e-English kasi it's very normal naman in such place like this. Show some respect naman po"

      To the girl's surprised, she looked at my friend and said "Bakit? Inaano ba namin kayo?"  The other girl isn't saying anything but she looked so embarrassed about her friend's manner. I don't want an intense dispute because my friend is a girl and she's also confronting a girl so I tried to pull my friend from her arm and asked her to leave.

       We've shared our cents to them so I guess a cat fight between those girls isn't required at all and we were in public. We're the educated people so it's very neutral to avoid a mediocre or worst, a derp.


      With that experience, my notion about social climbing emerged as a serious problem of the society. I defined the girl to be a social climber at its finest 'cause she doesn't know any of the things that go around in the coffee shop. I'm not sure if she's a patron of the shop or just a new one from the mountain trying new stuff. I am fairly alarmed that we were in the right place to speak English which is very innate to us.


   What is SOCIAL CLIMBING!

   Yung nagfefeeling na mayaman.

   Hindi ba sila nahihiya? Tsk

   Syempre hindi! Makakapal nga mukha nila eh.

   "YOU CAN'T ALWAYS PLEASE THE SOCIETY!" This has been the common quotation we live throughout the day whenever we're distraught, that sometimes we have to do better or have something better to fit in to the society, but the truth is we don't really need to fit in, we just have to learn how to be proud of oneself and not by putting too much comparison towards others.

   Minsan, may mga bagay na di mo na dapat pinu-push kasi yun lang talaga ang meron ka. Bakit naghahangad ka ng mga bagay na wala naman sa'yo? Walang masama sa paghahangad kung kayang makuha sa tamang paraan.
 

     Anyway, I made list of these Social Climbers and arrogant people that I happened to see and I've encountered. I'm making this post not to cause harm and fight to anybody, but as a lesson and awareness.


Let's roll it down......


1.)  The DSLR Cameras.. I really want to wrap the strap of that camera around your neck and choke you to death!! Camera will always be a camera and not an I.D. okay lang isabit yan sa leeg ninyo, kasi hindi naman yan handy-dandy pero bakit pati sa mall? Sa simbahan? Sa sementeryo? Pati pagbili sa supermarket may nakasabit na DSLR? Ano 'to? Bagong I.D? Wala naman sa mukha mo naka DSLR!


2.)  Texting your friends that you're partying in an exclusive and high-class club, but, you're actually partying in a cheap bar. I don't get these people why they have to brag about it? It wouldn't define your class when you just paid the entrance fee without the cocktails and liquors to haze you out


3.)  Memorizing Fashion Designers name and some International brands. You can specify the name of the designer but I'm sure na di ganun ka broad yung knowledge mo sa set of works niya. Kaya if I were you, titigilan ko ang pagtitweet o status sa names nila at other brands kung ayaw mong masabihan na nagfifeeling.


4.)  Angular tweets saying "I'M ENJOYING MY STARBUCKS" is lame and fake 'cause he's only sipping a 3-in-1 coffee, really! I mean it, I know some people who do it and has become the mainstream in some coffee shops. Actually, laos at gasgas na ang Starbucks, isip na lang kayo ng mas mamahalin para mainggit sila, kasi wala din naman sa mukha mo yung araw-araw nagi-Starbucks. In addition to this, insert these people taking selfie right next to the Starbucks logo and cups.


5.)  Wearing different clothes and labeling it as expensive and prohibitive where in reality you just bought it in Tiangge or Ukay-Ukay. Wag mo lang ipapasilip yung etiketa at baka masapak ka nung taong niloloko mo! You know what? there's nothing wrong on buying and acknowledging bargain courtesies and Ukay-Ukays. Actually, you can find more useful stuff there since it comes with varieties with deflated prices and not to mention that some celebrities have been the patron of such kind.


6.)  Posting photos like you're a model when you just used a digital camera with a high mega pixel resolution. And the poorest is, pinangalanan mong "model shoot" yung album mo sa FB. Juice colored! Have a consideration, magkaron ka ng kahihiyan at baka pagtawanan ka pa! In addition again, insert these people who change their occupation as model when you just had a fun shoot, yes, a FUN SHOOT! You ain't out there posing like a real model, mind telling you.


7.)  There's nothing more annoying than to hear these inconceivable people saying "I don't want to go in public/wet market, so yucky!" with matching English pa, like conyo. Hindi sana nakakainis kasi talagang ganun ang scene dun, maputik, mabaho, at malansa, but do you think you own any rights to say that if your house is filthier or worse, you're living near the vicinity of squatters and dike? Shame on you!


8.)  Claiming yourself as a relative of a celebrity or supermodel.. You don't tell us that you're a cousin of a supermodel and probably, not a super close friend of a local celebrity. Utang na loob! Baka mamaya friends lang kayo nung model sa FB, sinabi mo na agad na friends kayo in real life. Magkaiba yun! Eh baka mamaya ikaw lang nakakaalam na close kayo pero siya ni anino mo di alam na nageexist masabi mo lang na dikit ka sa sikat. Bawas-bawasan din paghithit ng katol minsan.


9.)  Hijacking people in a social circle is probably one of the most common and rampant scenarios that a social climber could do especially if the social climber is reckoned by the social. If they see that you're surrounded with such good-looking, famous and rich friends, they will wear your shoes to run around your circle. Di siya titigil hangga't di niya nananakaw yung mga kaibigan mo for his own benefit.


10.)  Newly branded boutique  just opened with the celebrities' participation which led to torrential people to come for the sake of good publicity. This recently happened when H&M unveiled their emporium in a mall in Mandaluyong. Nakakagulat yung mga dumagsa para lang makapag post sa facebook, instagram at twitter na present sila that day, kahit na kakapiranggot lang na medyas yung binili nila, masabi lang na they purchased an H&M brand. Aba matinde!


11.)  Stealing food photos from the internet and posting it on your Instagram account as your own credit just to boast with full force hashtags. This is derp!


12.)  Claiming that you're a fan of international tv series and movies when you don't actually put any interest on giving a glance to its numerous series because you don't really understand them. Kung hindi pa dahil sa subtitle at summary plot (thanks to wikipedia) baka bumaha na ng dugo.

Now Playing: Weekend - Verite

: Christmas Break

Man of Innocence: Jeremy Rohmer

Did I hear him say "I'm actually a virgin." during his interview? If ever, that makes him innocent at all.

This newest cycle of ANTM is still upstaging for me. When cycle 18 was rolled over the camera, it never became as glamour as the past cycles, and 17 was actually the last haul of the competition, and with that, thanking the contestants should be given, because these contestants are the residue of the show that pulls the viewers. Cycle 20 composes of goodlooking competitors, whether guys and girls.

Talking about Jeremy Rohmer, he's really my rooster, the youngest of all the guys. I will root for him. If you see Jeremy, that's him, I mean everything you'd see in and on him is all his worthy. He's the ideal winner of this season, there could be no other male contestant but this dude. I know that Cory is very flexible and versatile, he can really reinvent himself 'cause he's a gay, and that makes him as the toughest competitor, but still, Jeremy is a total package that can really represent the "Guy" in the competition.

I'm expecting a lot from him as he takes his photo shoots on wheel. But I can't seem to identify why he struggle at times. I'd like to think that Jourdan is also responsible for his lacks.

But, whatever it was, Jeremy is still on the go and should be appreciated!

His elimination was unexpected. That was the most disappointing point in the competition and I thought of that as the most stupid decision. Sending Jeremy home made me upset. He can do a lot better. And now, I'm hoping that he can make it to the comeback portion as he also participates with the photo shoos that will enable him to go back to the competition.

I must admit that his photo is really lack of something, very normal and plain. His shoot for the nail art print was really hard, I don't even know how to release that "booch" thing, and to blame Jourdan for adding the stress he's been feeling during the shoot.

 And man! He really cried!

Now Playing : New Perspective - Panic! At the Disco

: Boooooored

: Migs Lorenzana

      

On Shop: Flying Dutchman's Extended Sale

It's always fun to spice up and make the most of your summer with your latest and smoking items. And if you're looking for great sale deals this summer, you should turn your head at Flying Dutchman Shoe's great offers. They've got your summer must haves with the touch of vogue perfect for stylish men from head to toe.

They announced that they will be having a great sale last April 16 - 21, 12 nn - 8pm. All Tank Tops are SALE.

And due to the insist of public demand, they are extending the sale until this weekend, April 22 - 28, at the Collective, Makati

Photo Courtesy of Flying Dutchman Shoes

Spend your summer with these cool and novel stuff. Walk with summer that will make you look enviable.

Grab them out at Flying Dutchman Shoes at The Collective

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FLYING DUTCHMAN SHOES

for more information about the store and their system.

Fly high, walk your fashion with FD Shoes.

Now Playing : All I want is your Love - Inoj

: Migs Lorenzana

The Man Behind Bubbles: Sebastian Castro

Bubble (Official)

Honestly, I haven't got the chance to watch this video even though I'm posting this now haha. I don't know, maybe I'm not that really interested for I'm not really fond of watching any youtube videos, unless if it's really astounding. I'm doing this post since he's getting popular and as people love browsing sites where this guy is the main topic, I presume.

Sebastian Castro. I first saw Seb in Cosmopolitan PH issue. I can't recall if he was a "hunk of the month" guy, but one thing is for sure, he was featured in 69 cosmo bachelors as one of the bachelors, and as an endorser of Sexy Solutions with all his tarp promotions being scattered everywhere.

As I was scrolling my FB page, I saw this vid of him that surprised everyone. His confirmation and confession. Sebastian is gay as he expounded.

Now Playing :  Good Times - Carly Rae Jepsen and Owl City

February 14 Gone Lonely

Hi there! I know it's late to do this entry, but I want to slice my interest and give the highlights of my Feb 13 and 14.

IT WASN'T GOOD AND IT SUCKS!

I'm not expecting for any dates that time, coz I've been living my life as a single guy. Well, dating someone isn't my thing, to fill up the space and vacancy of Feb 14 isn't really important. If I would have an ideal date and if I'd date the girl I've been wanting for 10 years, then probably, it is the most enchanting date ever.

So I asked her on twitter. I know it's informal, and why not invite her in person to feel the sincerity and gentleness of the guy, but I had no choice, I don't have balls to do that coz she's always surrounded by BOYS! BOYS WITH "ARTISTAHIN FACE!"

Tweets are read upward.

Crap! I know I'm a dope with my answer. Saying "it's okay" doesn't mean it always has to be fine, but sometimes, it's our very latent answer or naive phrase to say "I'm broken, I'm gonna die!".

Lesson learned : Next time, try it in person. It might work. Don't choose a popular and beautiful girl on a date if you are unpopular and not a head turner. K Fine!

It was February 14, 2013, Thursday, and the temperature was slowly dropping, including the vicinity. I'm being metaphoric and bitter tho. I've found it hard sending and receiving text messages during the "affection-date", obviously, because couples are sending unlimited I love you's to their love ones. Pwe!

Behind the fact that it's cold because I'm single, and it's literally cold in temperature, you can feel the heat of the peripheral, made possible by lovely couples, trying to set their different gimmicks on how to surprise their girlfriends. I know it's sweet, but I hate to see it. Can you feel my bitterness?

This couple was the best example. As I was sitting on the plant box, I heard rampant screaming. Out from nowhere, there was a guy holding a dozen of red balloons with a pleated note and his 3 friends were on support. The girl got surprised by her boyfriend for preparing something so cultural for her. It's sweet, but I hate the girl's reaction, she just kept on smiling because it seemed that she was quite shy for being too public. We shouted kiss but they did not. I thought he'll let the balloons fly. He also gave chocolates and flowers. "Wasted" I said.

Click-y Gimmick

    Surprising your girlfriend is a call. It can give her the feeling that she's so special and lucky. Why not try to do these gimmicks? I assumed, it is considered. Set the most romantic idea for her.

1. Candlelight dinner. It's common yet, still effective and heart warming.

2. If you're in a long term relationship, create a "love photo collage" of your first date up to the current. Have it in a chronological order, showing different features of a picture and write something to show the vocalization of your relationship that has grown over the years. Try to add a personalize poem or quote.

3. Place yourself inside a big box while your friends are the ones who'll offer you to her. Now, what's the purpose and what's the catch? You're giving yourself to her as a gift. "I'm the gift voucher that entitles you to an entire day's pleasure at the hands of (name)". After you say this, treat her like a princess and be her butler and a right hand maid. Pamper her, do everything to satisfy her day. The word here is "YOUR WISH IS MY COMMAND."

4. If you have a car, set the balloons inside the compartment. Here's the set up. As you are about to leave the house with her, pretend like you cannot start the car and you'll be needing a hand to get a utilized tool to fix the problem. She'll probably get out of the car and will open the compartment as you pointed out. If she opened it, the balloons will appear with notes and some gifts. Girls will love this.

Now Playing : California King Bed - Rihanna

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                     : Migs Lorenzana